Well I think they can try to be positive (or put on a great front) and I think that while trying to always be positive that we might miss out on the “other view” of our great works. Some people believe, as do I, that the lower energy state, some call depression is really the ability to focus in on details that can be improved – such as in our art, our writing, our music….
Where I believe that the lower insight period becomes a problem is when we put that negative analysis on ourselves, our lives and our relationships. I believe that some of the more negative view is necessary and that it only becomes a problem when we make it part of who we are.
I love this quote from George Bernard Shaw:
“Both optimists and pessimists contribute to society.
The optimist invents the aeroplane, the pessimist the parachute.”
In other words, be optimistic with your pessimism and teach your children to criticize for improvement –only gently their works, not their lives and others around them.
Creativity is known for not being detail focused so we can use our criticism, our lower energy state of pessimism, in a new way with a new meaning that simply means “time for our detail focus, for alternative views” because without these views we might not see how to improve on what we create. Focus it on what you do – not who you are nor the people around you! As always remember to be gentle with yourself and others.